Monday, May 26, 2014

How to love like in Fairy tales?


Well, is this possible?


Once, my friend had this type of love affair. It was an amazing love story. They did travel  together.  They did shopping together, they ate together. They studied together. They did almost everything together. But, they were not living together until they married. Most remarkable thing was, though they liked each others that much, he or she never proposed to each other, until the very last week before they get married. They never spoke about their marriage or their future. They trusted each other blindly. They lived in their own world happily. They didn’t care what is happening outside their beautiful world. They did only love. Is it possible to exist this type of romance? I feel it’s like a fairytale.    

Love is a wonderful thing. Falling in real love, feels like a beautiful fairytale of course. but it depends, if only you just know how to feel it. It doesn’t matter, who you love , it matters how you do it and how you experience it. If you know how to fall in love with someone and enjoy every moment of it, you’ll be able to experience it and cherish it better than many others who think love is just an excuse for physical bond or a way to lean on someone else. It doesn’t matter if you’re already in love or falling in love with someone right this moment, Just try these devotions and commitments to know how to fall in love like you’re in a fairytale, and you may fall for the perfect one!

Being flexible, patient & ready to listen  are the main key points for such a love. For an example, suppose your partner is suggesting something for you. So…Always listen carefully to your partner, be patient to listen to what she or he has to say.

Then, talk with your lover calmly. If it’s a bad thing or a good thing, try to show the pros and cons lovingly. Then let your partner to decide it. If he or she really loves you, they will never take a wrong decision. However if something goes wrong and turned it to a heated argument don’t be scared, keep in mind that the end of the argument should be a good decision for both of you. Never walk away from an argument and shut the door on your partner. Even if it hurts like crazy, talk about it and always end the argument with a warm hug and a kiss.

As possible as you could, stay in touch. You don’t have to be with each other all the time, but try to at least call or text and update present situation. Maybe, when you are shopping with your friends you could buy some gifts for you partner. So, they will realize wherever you go, you stay with your lover in your mind.

When you have some spare time on the weekends, try to spend with your lover in a park, in cinema or go for a picnic. In this way you can know each other’s desires and wants more and more.

Always take photographs or make videos together. Special memories of everyday moments can actually help both of you fall more in love with each other each time you watch those photographs or videos again and again.

Never lose the faith about your true love. Same time, keep in mind that you’ll never clap with one hand; you need two hands for that.

Likewise such a love cannot exist in a single heart. Both hearts must be equally shared,

Then both of you will be the proud owners of such a wonderful fairy tale romance.

By Manu Fernando.

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